"Quit Assuming "
Today was interesting, to say the least. Scheduled an appointment two weeks ago for a lunch meeting and even sent out calendar invite. Received confirmation the prospect was going to be there the same day, two weeks ago.
Two weeks go by, no change in the calendar invite, so assumed we are still good to go. The person seemed punctual and would be the kind of person who would cancel if they can't make it.
Showed up to the meeting location 5 minutes early and ordered a drink. Sat there catching up on emails waiting for the prospect to show up.
Five minutes went by, then 15 and still no one showed up. Now twenty minutes past the appointment I'm calling the prospect to confirm our meeting. They apologized that they forgot to send a notification they couldn't make it and said try calling next week.
Really?! That just happened?! I worked so hard to schedule this, the prospect confirmed two weeks ago, and not I'm sitting by myself waiting for nothing.
I assumed the client was coming. I assumed it was in their calendar and so assumption kicked in they would be there for that. worst mistake to make with assuming things.
I learned two lessons today on this:
First, don't punk and stand someone up. Keep track of your schedule and don't flake out on someone, it's rude! And unprofessional!
Second, quit assuming others will be there when you ask or schedule them. Always confirm an appointment before driving and showing up. Being stood up once is one too many.
I learned today to quit assuming and instead be 100% sure each appointment is confirmed.